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What am I doing wrong?

My 22 year old boyfriend does not have an interest in sex with me. We haven't even been together 6 months and he claims I satisfied him more than any of his past relationships. He was plenty physically romantic with his first strong relationship, yet his most recent before me was described as going to bed with a rock. He tells me he loves my body, tells me I am great at what I do, but he doesn't feel like being sexual. We have sex about once a month, and he makes sure I reach orgasm, but then stops. Why can't he orgasm?


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi Lily, ---------- It is most likely that you are not competible in bed. I have the feeling that he is hiding something from you (being more specific: a sexual problem). The best you can do is try to be smart and sensetive and find out what are the real reasons for it. After knowing the reason(s), attend to it. If there are no reasons for it than the only conclusion is that you are not competible in bed (your needs do not meet his needs) it will, most probably, end that you hate him and then hate yourself.... In that case, the best thing to do, painfull as it is, move on and find someone that you deserve (and you both satisfy each other). He is 22 now.... can you imagine what will happen when he is 38.... 46.....54..... ----------- Best regards,

Posted 2008-10-26T08:03:26Z
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 Be honest and be true to yourself.

Lily,

   I agree with my dear friend OronD, 2 thumbs up to him.  He says he likes and enjoys your body.  His actions don't show that he does.  Remember the saying Actions speak louder than words?

   If he enjoys you, then he would be having sex with you at least once a day.

It does not seem he's telling the truth.  Please find out what's going on with him.

Posted 2008-10-26T21:59:09Z
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