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Hi , i was wondering could you please help me, im female 23 years old, my father is a paranoid schizophrenic he hasnt been in my life since i was 4, my mam passed away when i was 16 i have 3 brothers and 1 sister, life has not been easy, ive been unemployed for the past 2 months and have alot of debts and i dont know what to do with myself every relationship i have i have become somebody i dont even know getting angry and annoyed at boyfriends for things that should not bother me that much, my self esteem at the moment is non existent everytime i look in the mirror i cant seem to find anything i like, i cant hold on to a job as i get bored after a few months i dont know how to change, im starting a new college course soon and i am hoping this will make my life better and happier but i want to know whether you think im just reacting to having to much time to think lately or whether there is something more to it?

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zagameza

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Every story has an end but in life, every end is just a new beginning.

The unhappiness you are experiencing right now can be caused by multiple things, such as your job situation, your family situation, your mental health or your relationship situation. The only way to know which it is for sure is to start correcting each situation. For example, in order to fix your most immediate problem (the accumulating debt), make a list of the types of things you like to do. From that list, decide what your favorite is and go find a job doing just that. This will not only start you in the direction of earning money and paying off your debts, but it will also raise your self-esteem for sure. Once your self-esteem is re-built, you will feel more confident and love yourself enough for you to start dating and allow someone else to love you. As for your family, the only thing I can think of has to do with medications if you are diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia (which is genetic but unlikely a factor in what you presented here).

Best of luck.

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Surrender. Surrender. But don't give yourself away . . . .

~ Cheap Trick ~

Too be honest, you sound ADD, or ADHD. Can't focus, losing jobs from boredom, getting irritated with the people around you. Attention Deficit Disorder should be ruled out, and seeing a therapist would be a great start. Even if ADD isn't the problem, a therapist can help you figure out what is, and how to deal with it.

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