Lose this guy , he is nothing but trouble and will break your heart again and again. If this man loved you he would not have vanished off the face of the earth over the 4th . Another problem I see is you said " He got over her " , NO she DUMPED his sorry behind , so he came running back to you . I would say if the truth is known he hooked up with someone else , do not believe his phone story , that should actually insult your intelligence . Find yourself a good honest man who will love , honor and cherish you , and above all treat you like a lady with the respect you deserve . My Father told me one time , we as Women teach Men how to treat us .