First and formost, [I normally have words flowing right off my tongue, need a little time to think on this, Here we go! ] you must look at " your " past and stop, that's right just stop everything your doing at the moment and if you are with someone or surrounded by many people, see what is different, If anything and see what seems to be a little different. You need to listen to that voice we all have inside us that flows thoughts that you normally can not put together in the real sense and ask yourself are " You " ready to change not just yourself but do you have the courage to offer change to somebody else and can you bear the pain of hearing a million "no " to what you know is good and will be good for many. Are you willing to take someone on your back and offer them love, kindness and forgiveness, can you make other's see not just today, butt have them plan for tomorrow. Can you believe in the divine power that made us all or are you like most, " If I can't see it, I do not believe it. " The world has always been a better place to live in, It is us who find a way not wanting to be in a better place to live.