She wants me but wont take me back?

I have been with my girlfreind for two years of which where the best an emotional times of my life. during this period i gave her Love, Material love and a number of things like confidence and exposure to things she had never seen or done. we had good and bad times like most however come January of this year she finnished with me as i was miserable due to work and at 23 still not got a driving liscense. in order to get her back as i was devistated i ticked of every box i said i would and she saw this and decided to try again. we made things good where busy and wanted to marry and have kids etc telling me in tears of Joy she would always loven and be with me and that a number of palm readers had told her about me and we would be together forever and never love like we did to any one else. i made sure we where both happy until when i was paying for her to come to the gym to spend more time together and got anger management to cope with stress of work in the city she said i made her feel like she was using me. from this she finnished with me after she had said she would never leave me again and always sort things out. she ignored me pushed me away etc until 4 weeks later now one week ago she come to get her stuff and broke down in tears to me and my mum of which she had been through a lot with. she stated she loved me dearly and would forver as well as wanting to be with me but couldnt as her mother felt it wassnt right and she could not stand up to her. she then asked me to never cut her out of her life asked for one last kiss and left. from that she want stop calling and texting however sometimes ignores my replies to her and tells me to back of but then shows herself again telling me how she feels. i cant handle this any more and just want to be with her but i dont understand! please help or advise. thanks


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Sounds to me like her mother pushed her into leaving you, and she's having a tough time moving on.  If it really was her mother, and not her own feelings, that made her leave I'm sure that if you continue to show you love her while giving her the space she says she needs (VERY important) that she'll soon realize that her overbearing mother doesnt have her best interests at heart.  Could also try talking to her mother (if she'll talk to you) and see what it is about you that she doesnt approve of.  I'm not saying you have to fix the things about yourself that she doesnt like, hell my mother in law doesnt like everything about me either, but if you know what they are you can make a better go of dealing with them.  All in all, I'd say she needs time to make up her own mind...don't push hard, but keep gentle pressure on her, remind her how happy you two were, and she'll probably come around.


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Cheers dude. i am so mixed up. she asked to go out yesterday then turned all of a sudden and decided to tell me i was pissin her of and she was not coming however she is meeting with my mum tomorrow< this is so weird. i saw on her face book some guy say to her today; happy birthday and i will c u when you get back! i feel like there may be trouble ahead as i saw her out last saturday and a guy dancing with her and i lost it and ended up knocking him about which i was dissapointed in doing but she still talks to me. i dont know how to deal with the thoughts in my head just wish she would reealise!


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She is playing with your feelings to keep you hanging around since she knows exactly how you feel about her. Try ignoring her and dating and you'll see how fast you turn the tables when she gets that loosing you feeling! Then you will be the one to decide! Good luck!


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