First, do't trust websites, many are run by assholes that don't know what the hell they are talking about.
I used to read alot, but I am a guy and don't have that problem. eve primrose black cohosh, and Chinese yams sound familiar for menopause. Simply put, it can be thought of as estrogen withdrawal: Hormone replacement (risk cancer) keeps you hooked, so I suggest Soy products (tofu) which contain plant estrogens that can help ease you off less painfully. I also seem to remember some minerals, perhaps vitemins too, that help; but I cannot recall which ones.
Your greatest asset is knowledge. My 2 favorite books for this are given below.
HERBS THAT HEAL BY MICHAEL WEINER
NUTRITIONALHEALING BY BALCH AND BALCH
The info in those 2 books is better than any damn bullshit pay-for-me website.