a) Why do you think that 'most women' are afraid of anythin with numbers in it? I never made this experience.
b) Numbers are not math. In fact, hardly anything of mathematics has very much to do with numbers.
c) In mathematics, the ratio men/women is much closer to 1 than in other science (that might depend on the country, sorry, have no reference at hand).
d) I am a woman. I like maths.