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Why do women find anger attractive?

They say that women are attracted to “bad boys.” But it seems that “bad boys” often lose their composure and act out on their anger... Why is that attractive? 


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This is a FANTASTIC question.



Let's talk about "Bad Boys."

I personally believe that women are ATTRACTED to "Bad Boys" on an "unconscious" level.

You'll have to get my Advanced Series if you want a full explanation. It takes hours.

But the point is that Bad Boys have aspects to their personalities that women find SEXY.

Unfortunately, Bad Boys are often ABUSIVE as well.

I don't like abuse, and I don't like to be abusive.

In fact, I dislike MEAN people and MEAN BEHAVIOR more than just about anything.

I may bust balls and tease a lot, but underneath it all I'm always just teasing, or trying to help.

One of the things that never sat well with me was the idea that I had to do EVERYTHING that a Bad Boy does in order to have women dig me.

Well, the good news is that I've realized that it's very possible (and can be fun) to take some of the great things that Bad Boys do to attract women... and learn them... WITHOUT the abuse.

You probably see where I'm going here.

YES, Bad Boys often throw tantrums and "lose their composure."  This is true.

But I think that throwing tantrums, yelling at women, and being physically abusive to women are all horrible.

On the other hand, keeping your COMPOSURE is exactly the "right way" to deal with many situations with women.

When you keep your composure, you actually show that you're EVEN STRONGER than if you were to get upset.  That’s very attractive to women.

I mean, if you WANT to get upset, feel free.

Maybe we'll see you on the next Springer rerun...

But COMPOSURE is a much better way. Try it, you'll like it.
Posted 2006-12-09T05:33:40Z
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We like anger because we can't seem to harness that masculine side of raw anger like a man can.  We always seek out what we don't have or would like to possess, so it makes perfect sense that some women find anger, be it conscience or unconsciencely, attractive.

Posted 2007-11-20T17:41:10Z
 

I think anger and losing composure is of unrefined people. Underneath it all, we all have a less refined side, but it takes a certain degree of intelligence to see anger and mean behavior, not as something attractive, but as something primitive, stupid and childish.  

Posted 2008-04-09T22:26:06Z
 
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A woman looks at a guy with issues and a bad attitude the same way I look at a $300 rustbucket car and see an asphault melting street machine.  They want someone they have to change, like a project.  It's almost like they see a man getting all beligerent and angry and something clicks in their brain that screams "Kittens!" and all of a sudden he's the most helpless, cute little fuzzball in the world.  I'm covered from wrist to neck to toes in tattoos, drive a lifted 4x4, shave my head, listen to heavy metal, and blow kisses at old men on the freeway...my girlfriend adores me because she's the only one who know's it's ALL a facade.

Posted 2008-06-20T02:33:13Z
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Hey Wright.

Women like men because they are men, they have spent hundreds of millions of years evolving to subconsciously go for Alpha-males.  Like it or not that's the way it is. Emotion wins over logic nearly every time. Imagine you see a tall slim girl, perfect figure, long shiny hair dancing graciously in the morning wind but she's pushing with all her strength against a door that says pull, the logical part of your brain is telling you to stay away but your penis is tell you to have sex with her.

Anger however is not attractive to most women in fact it is a huge turn off. Any woman who is attracted to anger and abuse should be avoided like the plague. Masculinity however is hugely attractive to women if channeled in the right way.

As David said badboys have attractive qualities to them. The biggest problem nice guys have is they are unbelievably boring! Seriously ask any girl on the planet and she will agree with me. Bad boys however are fun, confident, decisive and aren't  afraid to speak their mind.

Women like men because they are men, they have spent hundreds of millions of years evolving to subconsciously go for Alpha-males.  Like it or not that's the way it is and that is certainly not going to change in our life time.

There's a hell of a lot more to it than that, if you want a more complete answer email me.

Posted 2009-11-22T04:19:41Z

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