When the woman you're dating gets insecure

A guy is not a wuss when he reassures a woman he is dating. You should definitely try to talk with her about her insecurities. It's more than likely that something triggered her recent insecurities and you may be able to alleviate them just by calling her out on them.

In the words of the great romans.......Duh.  If you had a doubt would you want to be reassured, or would you want her to blow you off with a tough girl act?  Put yourself in her shoes, while the insecurity is mostly her problem, a little reassurance is like relationship insurance. 

 If her insecurities get intrusive, then it's time to put the breaks on and politely tell her "I have chosen you, I'm with you and your who I want to be with....... so what is your issue".  I actually had that exact phrase used on me by my husband after we met, as I was getting jealous over a friend who later proved she wanted more.  Anywho, it provoked thought and I agreed, if he loves me and wants me, what is my major malfunction.

Give a little love here, and pet and reassure her. 

Best of luck!

there's not much you can do about it... if she feels that way, it's due to a lot of things, and whatever it is you say, won't change much..... it'll take a long time for her to feel secure, but it will take time..... so don't expect much of a change in a few weeks...

cheers

There's a lot you can do about it!! First of all, women are not naturally insecure. A man can make a normally confident woman VERY insecure. And there's a million other things that can make a normally confident woman suddenly insecure, women are like that (for all you men who don't know!) Now, if it's something you did or said to make her feel this way, you should definately find out what it was so you can make sure you never do it again. Secondly, once you find out what the problem is, or even if you don't, you have to try to make her feel good about herself again. It may take some effort, but you have to do this. Reassure her that you still think she is beautiful, you are very much in love with her and very attracted to her. Just make her feel good about herself again... not just verbally but physically. Kiss her, touch her, look at her like she's the hottest thing you've ever seen. Trust me, most men don't want to put in the effort and chalk it up to "there's nothing I can do, woman are just always insecure" Please don't be one of those men. There's PLENTY you can do!!

Pace, read T D Katz, The Female Guide to sensual leasures.  This book teaches woman to rethink themselves.  It builds self esteem , and trust me, if you give this to her as a gift, she will change for the better.  Security is the best friend you can have in a woman.  Her confidence will glow forever and you can only benifit.  If you go on catering to her needs and reasuring her for the rest of your life, you will grow tired fast.  Insecurity is a deal braker and a couple buster.  Fix this now if you want this woman.  the book is by