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I personally think that this is one of the funniest questions I hear. I mean, haven't you watched "Swingers"? lol...



My rule of thumb is to wait at least one day, but not more than a few. The real key is how OFTEN you call her, and, more importantly, what you SAY when you call.

But let's talk about the psychology of why women give out their phone numbers, and why I personally like to get email addresses.

You must remember that beautiful women are being approached all the time by men, in one way or another.

They have an unlimited supply of guys to choose from.

I think that a lot of women who give out their numbers, then respond by being flaky when you call are doing something that many of us guys wouldn't have thought of in a million years:

I think they're making themselves feel good.

Explained differently, I think that many women who give out their numbers are looking for the self-image-boosting hit of power that comes from having a lot of men calling them... men that THEY have the power to ACCEPT OR REJECT.

They can also use it to get attention from
friends:

"All these guys just keep calling me! Why don't they just leave me alone! Don't they get the hint!?"

Now, don't get me wrong. I know that this sounds a little bit negative... and I don't mean to say that ALL women do this, or that ALL women are bad, etc.

To me, it's just part of the real world that you need to learn to accept and deal with.

Which leads me to why I get email addresses...

Keep in mind, I've tried a lot of different things when it comes to curing this problem of hot-and-cold women who act one way when you meet them, then totally different when you call.

And what I've found is that if you get EMAILS instead, you not only differentiate yourself, but you also increase your chances of hearing back from her about 100%. No lie.

For some reason, email has a power that a call does not.

If you have my book "Double Your Dating", then you have read about the technique for getting a woman's email address within a few minutes of meeting her. Email is also seen as lower risk by her... and it's easier to get as well.

Try it. You'll like it.

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Love your life.

I have to agree with that you should wait at least a day but not more than a few days. You don't want the woman to forget where she met you, and also you don't want to seem too forward.

But most importantly, if you say you will call, CALL! I think one of women's biggest pet peeves is when a man says he'll call and he doesn't.

I'm not familiar with the email address stuff, but I must say, we are almost in the year 2008 so it definitely fits with the "time."


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If you like the girl, you should definitely let her know..call her the next day and ask her out to a movie or something light and spend the time getting to know her. If you're sincere, trust me, she'll appreciate it and you for being an upfront guy who is not afraid to put himself out there. If she doesn't respond positively then she wasn't the one for you anyway and things wouldn't have changed even if you waited a few days. Good luck! Follow your instincts and trust yourself on these things. Don't be afraid of rejection..thats just the universe's way of telling you that you need to go in a different direction.


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