tell him he can go,,,if you can go with him.this will eather spice up the relationship between you or he will be exstreamly shy wile you are there and feel uncomfertable. personly i like going with my husband, but we rairly go. it gets old quick for us and we much rather be at home sexing it up.the truth is if a man likes going to strip clubs he is going to go, you just wont know about it untill he does something stupid that lets you find out. i can tell you also that many of the better clubs are open by 10:30am.many many men go to clubs during the day, on ther lunch brakes,or just because they can slip in for a hour or so and still get home at there regular time so the wife is none the wiser...