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My wife's desire for intimacy is nill

My wife has 0 % interest in sex or even cuddling. She says she stil loves me very much. I only get a small kiss good night. Help me pease. I a 57, she is 54.


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Love is the battery of life....

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That's bad.  In order to give you good advise one needs to know a bit more:  Was she always like that ? If not when did it all start ? Is she healthy ? how was your sex ? are you healthy ? Are you functioning well ?  How are your relations ? any major trouble (financial, social, problems with kids, with close friends / relatives) ? Is she worried from someghing ?  What did you (both) do to put some life into your sex ?
Discuss it with her, don't let your sex to die.  Don't give up !.
Best regards,

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From what I have researched in a report conducted last week, it is perfectly normal for women over 50 to experience a lack of sexual intimacy.  So, I believe your wife loves you but is simply just not interested.  The problem may have begun during the onset of menopause which can last in women 5-10 years.  Menopause is one the main reasons why women's libido levels decrease.  Perhaps the following two websites will provide you with further insights: www.snzeport.com/dlarticles3/menopause-length.htm and www.webmd.com/menopause/news/20021007/sexual-interest-commonly-dip

 


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