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My wife's desire for intimacy is nill

My wife has 0 % interest in sex or even cuddling. She says she stil loves me very much. I only get a small kiss good night. Help me pease. I a 57, she is 54.


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


That's bad.  In order to give you good advise one needs to know a bit more:  Was she always like that ? If not when did it all start ? Is she healthy ? how was your sex ? are you healthy ? Are you functioning well ?  How are your relations ? any major trouble (financial, social, problems with kids, with close friends / relatives) ? Is she worried from someghing ?  What did you (both) do to put some life into your sex ?
Discuss it with her, don't let your sex to die.  Don't give up !.
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I'll search, while you Cool wait.

 

From what I have researched in a report conducted last week, it is perfectly normal for women over 50 to experience a lack of sexual intimacy.  So, I believe your wife loves you but is simply just not interested.  The problem may have begun during the onset of menopause which can last in women 5-10 years.  Menopause is one the main reasons why women's libido levels decrease.  Perhaps the following two websites will provide you with further insights: www.snzeport.com/dlarticles3/menopause-length.htm and www.webmd.com/menopause/news/20021007/sexual-interest-commonly-dip

 

Posted 2008-01-09T17:24:27Z
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"Success is measured Not by one's worth; But, how worthy you are to others..."  ~Di   

I apoligize in advance.  But, have you thought perhaps a lack of pleasure, physically or emotional?  Physically involves stimulating your partner to become aroused with your very touch!  Emotions connects a woman with her desires...so... my advice, remember what makes her smile, do all you can to make her day easier and romance her, everyday!  Nice bubble bath, and an oil massage will get you some stimulation, trust me!  Much happiness to ya.. ~Di

 
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Time to visit your local adult sex shop  and get you a blow up doll  Cool

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