If you are asking where to find ideas for personal wedding vows go on-line and type in personalized wedding vows. I found them on a bridal web site and they offer sites to choose from. Also go to your local book store and look in the wedding section for books on how to write them. Then take pieces from each that you like and personalize them to your situation. Be sure and include something that you both share or love about the other so they don't sound trite or too canned like from a book. Good luck and share what's in your heart.