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Should I go out of my way to find him?

Should I go out my way to find him?

I met this guy at work and we were both kinda feelin each other but we really didn't get to talk because we were in different departments..the times that we did get to talk were quick and hurried but from the quick conversations, I must say that I am feeling him and I was ready to give him my phone number when I found out that he was just training at my store and was transferred to another store before I had a chance to see him again. I found out from a source which store he works at. He seems perfect for me and I would love to get to kno him better. what I wanna kno is should I bother traveling to his store which is kind of far from where I am at now? I don't wanna come off like its fatal attraction (lol) of course I would wanna play it off...like go shopping in the area becuz its in a mall. should I play it off like its just a coincidence or should i tell him that I was looking for him? Or should I just let it go??

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OronD

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Hi,
No, don't let it go.... if you do so it will always bother you and you'll always think that you missed your potential love.... why hide your feeling ? go to him and tell him you came specially for him and wish to know him better. What's wrong with it ? On the contrary you'll seem to be a brave honest true person.... Go for it.
Best regards,

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eric.van1982

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A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.

Just go to the mall with a couple of girlfriends and casually go into his store. When you bump into him, you can say you were shopping with your girlfriends. Just make sure to drop your digits before you leave.

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ibelieveinfairytales

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Honey,

If the store is far from where you are now then chances are he'll know you traveled the distance to see him and some guys might see that as a turnoff. Men are not as stupid as we might think...

Id go with the honest approach: call his store, ask to speak to him and let him know you'd want to hang out. That way, if he says no, you didn't drag your butt all the way to schmucktown to see him.

keep me updated:)

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DB Lady

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Hello,

I believe that if a man is really, really interested in you, you don't have to make the first move. He knows where to find you, if he thinks of pursuing a relationship with you. I think that a real lady will wait for the man's overture, not the woman making the first move.

In the meantime, try to find someone who would make the first move and would show interest in you.

Good luck to you.

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