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I am looking back thru some questions that I have answered. Forgive me for talking about your daughter.
This women is a minor, she has a child, she is on welfare, she shows no parental concern.
Go ahead and enlist DHS. You might consider a PI.
And when she loses her child and her welfare, be sure that you have your Teflon coat on. And the galoshes, too. Because she will come after you verbally.
Embracing responsibility for one's actions is a sign of maturity.
Your daughter's happiness is not your responsibility.
Hang tough.
JayR