How can you tell if your man is cheating. My husband left me when i was 2 months pregnant and got a girl friend that is 3 years or 4 younger than me and staid with her for 6 months and in 3 months of them living together was telling me how he was going to leave her. He finaly did and moved back in with his parents and seems to be on the right road but he says he is not going to tell her that they are done he is just going to drop her and let her figure it out. but she lives at his best friends house witch is his friends wifes sister. should i be worrid that he is throwing me for a loop or trust he when he says that he is done with her and just wants to have his family back and be with me and my daughter and son forever. I am scard that he does want his family back but wants her on the side as well. what do i do
He is playing games with you because he knows that you still want to be with him. Im confused...he lives with his best friend...and the girl he left you for is his BF's sister in law?? If this is correct...he is REALLY playing you because that girl is still coming over to the BF's house. He is just stringing you along because he knows that you aren't going anywhere and you will always be there looking stupid. You need to move on and be with someone that wants to be with you. DO NOT EVER force a man to be with you
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What Honie said. And marriage/family counseling seems like a darn good idea as well...
No moral system can rest solely on authority.
Firstly why do you want him back? He is a cheat and he wants to have his cake and eat it to. Ask yourself this... Do you deserve better than that for yourself? For your kids? Dont be a doormat.
Give up on him he's not worth your time & energy. It sounds to me like he wants to have her on the side. Of course he's not going to stop seeing his best friend (whom she lives with) so they will always be in contact with each other. I understand that he is your husband. I am married too so i get it, but he left while you were 2 months pregnant, that's something to think about.......Will he up & leave you for the next cutie that comes along?
Be honest and be true to yourself.
Camme, I agree with everyone above, gave them 2 thumbs up each. Please don't waste your time on a man like him. He left you when you were pregnant. He is irresponsible, selfish and does not care about anyone else and just keep using women. You deserve a better man, someone who will love you and will be not cheat on you. If you'll take him back, he'll do the same thing over and over again. You have a choice and the final decision depends on you. Take care and I hope you will make the right decision.
why he is living with hes parent,did he just take off when you was pregnant.he dont love nobody.life is to beautiful and time to,he is a lier.go know before he live you with 3 or 4 kids.ones a cheater always a cheater.
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I know it may be hard to do but let him go or should i say give a taste of his own dirt he knows in his mind that he has you trap and your not going to move on but you have to be the strong one and move on because now he knows your mind set about him so of course he will have is cake and ice cream believe if you were to step out on faith and do you he will notice and really want you and his family and then you can make the choice is it worth it
Camme it's time for you to focus on yourself and her children. Your husband is a grown man. It's time that he acts like it. You don't need another child. If you act desperate, he will continue to play with your emotions. Get your self together. Do you have a career? Do you do anything to better your condition? The best thing for your children and you is for Camme (you) to not be a booty call for your husband. Remember you can't date your husband. You and your children desrve better.
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