I want him back what should i do?

Sometimes letting it go can do good. You didn't say for how long are you separated, but maybe if he won't hear from you for a certain period of time he start thinking about you too. Right now it seems that he doesn't miss you, as you keep asking him to come back. Give him some space- if he loves you as much as you love him, he would come back. If he doesn't love you the same way, it just doesn't worth it.

Hi,

I read a similar question before , see if it could help you.

http://yedda.com/questions/person_love_relationships_flowers_5187102816048/ 

I agree with the first response,I think you should give him time and space.Letting him go is the most painful,but best thing you can do for yourself,and your relationship.Talking to someone might help.After something as traumatic as an abortion I would need something to hold onto as well,and if he can't be sensitive to that,he's not worth your tears.

I think you should run...run...run away from this one.  If he does not want to be with you, you will just be causing yourself pain.  A woman deserves to be loved by someone who charishes the time with her, and I'd bet if you let this one go, you would more easily find someone who is right for you.

It hurts to let go, but it does not hurt as much as holding on to something or someone that does not want to be held onto.

It's over, he's made his intentions clear, you need to respect his wishes.  If he wanted a relationship with you, he would have called you by now.  Don't romantasize about what could have been, you can spend your life looking back.  I liken looking back to riding a bike while looking back..... you'll almost always wreck.

It's great that you still love him, but you need to work through those feelings and move on.  You can always love someone, but that doesn't gaurantee that you will be loved in return.  He set you aside, do right by yourself and with you chin up, move on.  It's going to painful but the sooner you accept this, the sooner you can move on to someone who deserves your love and adoration.

I think Someone is unhappy with our answers, notice all the thumbs down when she was advised to move on.  My advice now is don't post a questions if your not going to be mature enough to handle the advice that YOU solicited.  Best of luck to you and your baby, oops that right.

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I found  a book on the internet that has taught me a lot (french behavioural method written by a french woman), particularly how to behave in order to win back my ex, to save my relationship ; I applied that behavioural method to the letter and I can tell you that it worked - I recommend it to you !

http://www.secrets-de-femmes.fr/saving-your-relationship.html