How do I get him to wake up and smell the sex????

Why does your husband sleep too much?  Does he work too much?  Does he have any medical problems that cause him to sleep?  I think he needs to see his doctor and a urologist.

Well , he sounds depressed...

1) maybe a little vacation or something... just something out of the usual to remind him that life is more than work, tv and sleep...

2) don't wait till bedtime... get him in the morning... get up early make yourself pretty and showered and give him a quicky before work...or schedule your romps...

3) more exercise... it's important for blood flow and libido..if you don't feel good you don't want to have sex...take a walk together...

4) you could even take more of an interest in yourself... have you gone from tight dress pants to sweatpants... swapped our thongs for granny panties.... stopped brushing your teeth every time you kiss...stopped shaving regularly....it really does make a difference.. sometimes we forget how WE use to be...

5) try visual stimulation... men are very visual creatures...maybe he just isn't seeeing alot of "sexy" in his life right now... maybe watch a dirty movie with him...

The possibilities are just endless....

V.

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I would make an appointment and go with him to see the DR , find out if there is a health issues .  If there's not then I would ask him if he's having an affair .  If he's not getting it at home he is getting it someplace else , unless there is a health issue .

I feel for you! I am having the same problem with my man. He is always tired because he works a lot. Since men are usually horney in the morning and wake up with a hard on, you should try to come on to him then. Another thing is not to make a big issue out of it and don't wait for him to come on to you- you have to be the aggressor sexually and get him in the mood. It sounds like he is either depressed, works too much, or has a medical problem. He should see a Dr. about his fatigue,especially since it is affecting your sex life.