A virgin wants sex

You said that you are engaged already ... when is your wedding to be? It's not uncommon for you be having sexual feelings and desires. For one, you are a woman with hormones, and for two, you are in love with someone, and this creates an attraction that at the moment you are trying to fight.

yes of course you are going to be real curious everyday.what you got to reamber is that being a christian is a relgion that most people go by .but you can not help the person you fell inlove with, and the life you want to share with.if you deeply feel like he is the one go for it.your going to marry him not your ,mom,dad,other realtives.to be an adult you my dear are the one who makes your own adult decisions..to love that person is special ,as well that moment should be special...

sex is a wonderful thing girl!..and if you are getting THAT excited, than maybe it is time!.. I'm an atheist so we obviuosslly have differint beliefes , but if "god" is so forgiving , I don't think he would punish you for a natural human emotion,or what ever!.. here's a question for you,{i wanna know} were adam and eve married?..  well I hope I helped in some way?.......enjoyyyyyyy!..

God gave us urges, christian or not you wouldn't buy a new pair of shoes without trying them on first. Imagine being in love and then finding out how sexually incompatiable you are, you both say love will see us through but after 5 years of crap sex........... well you get the idea. 

there is no guarantee that having intercourse will make the feelings go away or be satisfied. chose your partner well if you decide on intercours. In the meantime, try masturbation.

    The act of maintaining your virginity is based on a system of beliefs that you maintain. This idea is simply that; an idea. It is not for me to say whether it is a good idea or not.

    Sex is natural. Sex, in its natural focus, does not adhere to "social" rules or fears. There has been a great deal of fear placed upon a very natural expression of love. There is great natural movement of energy in this intent of expression. Even psychically before any physical action is actually taken.

    Part of what you are experiencing is a conflict in beliefs. Your body is telling you one thing, and so is your "old" programming; but, there are aspects of your psyche that are questioning those very beliefs.

   This is an individual thing. The decisions are yours and no one else. It isn't necessary to implement fear into a natural exchange of energy. However, once again, it is not my place to say what one should or shouldn't believe; or how they should behave. What I am saying is that we are each responsible for our own reality and how we view the world, the universe, and our experience within this system.

     It is easier to think clearly when one does not have to look through "fearful glasses."

                                       With Kind Regards,

                                                              Daniel

Dear Pearls4life, by the way, I LOVE the name you chose. Okay,Caxie gave you a great explanation. I was going to say the same thing. However, I'd like to add my thoughts on this from a Christian perspective. Other than the obvious stated by Caxie...you made a serious decision at some point in your life & so far you've kept your commitment to yourself as well as the Lord God. There are some thingd going on in the spirit realm. Now that you're in love & so close to getting married, the enemy wants to trip you up by tempting you to break the decision you've made. You've gone this far sweetie, don't turn back now. Apparently this means a great deal to you to present yourself to your beloved husband as a virgin on your wedding night, so don't allow the enemy to rob you of this. You know you know your more valuable to your future husband than "rubies & pearls" & the importance of what marriage represents; the man being Christ the Bridegroom, the woman being the Church, the Bride. If your wedding day isn't around the corner, change the date even if you have to elope. Continuing on this road as a virtuous woman is much more important than a big wedding or long engagement. Tell your fiance how you feel emotionally & even physically & how much you do want to remain a virgin until you're married. I am very sure he'll listen & together you can decide whether to wait for the big wedding, have a smaller one sooner, or elope. I just want to encourage you as a sister in Christ to do what is right for you & I truly believe it's for you to wait. I will be praying for you & your fiance. Congratulations, may the two of you have many years or great happiness, bless each of you & your union in the name of Jesus. Your friend, Trishahearon

If you want to wait until you are married then go on and get married.  You said you were engaged!!  Also, your fiance would be happy to know you turned him on.

Good Luck