If ur ex from 15 months ago did this since dumping u what would you think?

u are engaged to a guy for 2 years, he dumps you out the blue. When he breaks up with u he is cryin and wants space. you give him his space and you dont speak to him for 8 months and when u do he tells u he thinks of u everyday, looks for u wherever he goes, any song reminds him of u, he thinks of u when what would of been ur wedding song is played and said thats definatly our song, he still looks for u when he sees a car the same as urs and still hears u call charlie when he sees one the same (Charlie is a dog) and says its all good all good afterwards and at the time he thought it was for the best and he still has all ur numbers in his mobile and says he still has everything u have given him.

After that night you dont speak again, but bump into him 6 weeks on outside his work whilst he is on lunch he is nervous and gets emotional, asks how u r and what u been up to kisses u on the cheek and hugs u tight when he says bye.

Again u do not hear from him, but he bumps into ur best mate at a social club asks how u r, they tell him u have just had a operation but doing well. Again he gets emotional , shakes his head , walks of goes for a Cigarette then leaves without saying bye.

u then drive down the road, he is standing there staring at the car and when u get in line with him he starts waving, then stares as u drive on.

What you u think is going on with him? its now 15 months since he left!

Last time i saw him to talk to was Xmas


Sorry its long, hope it makes sence xx


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Sorry but must be total miscommunication here. I have not seen my x in33 years. My x doesn't know if i am dead or alive. The dogs name if by chance i know was chrls michl.

 

my x wife told me that she neede space.we were together for 12 year's maried 6 of them.I left town she got ahold of me & told me she would have went with me if she knew i was leaving.I was very confused.since then I moved back and ran into her sister & she told me that my x wanted me back.I didn't get back with her & I am with someone who realy want's to be with me.not just when it is convenent for her. my advise is to find someone who realy want's to be with you.trust me they are out there!it has been 16 year's & I still don't understand but it worked out better for me.in a way she did me a favor. my advise to him is be carfull what you ask for you might get it! have patiance you will find the right one.

 
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I'm not sure what your question is in all of that, but if you're asking if it's worth getting back together and trying again; I'd say no.

Actions speak louder than words. He keeps TELLING you how much he cares, etcetera - but his ACTIONS don't back it up.

If he was interested in you or wanted to be with you, he'd contact you (he still has all your numbers, he said so). Since he doesn't, but only tugs at your heartstrings when he sees you; it seems to be a classic case of 'out of sight, out of mind.'

Don't bother giving him a second thought. Smile and nod when you see him; then just keep going. It's not worth trying again.

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They were just all made up lies trying to hurt an Old Friend??

Posted 2009-06-04T20:53:03Z
 
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Move along!  He is playing you so that you can feel sorry for him just in case he won't be able to find anyone else.  He knows that he has you thinking that he might still be in love with you so it's to his conviniece so that you won't completely close the door.  But if any of it were true, he would waste no time and be begging you to get back together and he is not.  He is playing you and using you.  don't waste your precious time on him.  Go and find yourself Mr. Right and he is out there.  Good Luck!

Posted 2009-06-06T13:56:00Z
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It seems to me that he does have some sort of feelings for the girl.  He expresses his thoughts of her even after they've parted and displays acts of affection and kindness when spoken of her or when he sees her.  However, it is also obvious that his feelings for her did not run deep enough to continue his journey with her.  I do commend and admire the lady who had enough respect for herself and him to give him his independence.  In addition, this guy could also be facing some sort of crisis, i.e.: identity crisis, sexuality crisis or maybe he could be married or torn between two lovers.  Sometimes people find it difficult to be sincere about their feelings without realizing that honesty is "freedom."

Posted 2009-06-08T14:26:11Z
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