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I got very upset at a close friend of mine because ...

I got very upset at a close friend of mine because she cannot drink at her house so she was coming to my house, spending the night and get drunk out of her mind. A couple of times I did not let her spend the night but I would let her sleep it off. Each one of us would buy our own drinks. If I fell asleep before her or I was busy doing something around the house, she would drink my drinks, then go to the party next door and get more drinks from them. I told her a couple of times what was bothering me and I did not like her doing that, she was not obligated to work with me either but don't get in my way.  Like a good hostess I was also cleaning up after her. She clog my toliet broke one of my tiles then I found candle wax on the bathroom floors.  She never brought overnite clothes she was always asking me for some. I was lucky if I got some of my clothes back. when I would ask her for it she would lie or give me an excuse. I don't have any other close friends but this one I just had to let go. She call me crying to make up and she was sorry.  AT the time I did not want to hear her cry, but no I don't want her friendship. I feel slightly guilty then again I feel like weight is off my shoulder.


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Hi,
You described a situation without posting a question.  I believe you are asking for comments.  The way you described your friend indicates that you don't really love her (in fact I feel the opposite is more true) and you won't be too sorry to stop being her friend.....  The only thing that bothers you is the fact that you feel she needed help and you didn't give it to her.... ("A friend in need.....").  Yes, you should help her as much as you could....  running away is the easiest solution but not the correct one.  No offence, please, but as a friend you failed.  It is very clear that she shouldn't be your friend in the 1st place (so much different from you in terms of morals and character, mainly) but once she became your best friend you had obligations for her and you should have supported her when she called for help / assistance.  However, it's over now and better forget about it.  Next time take more care in choosing your friends and be more loyal to them. 
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Yes it's very tough situation for you dear.. but you need to face this situation and find some appropriate solution. I think when she is not drunk discuss all these things very clearly but in very peaceful manner. I hope she understand what you want and how much you love her.


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How could you feel guilty when you did not do anything wrong to her?  It's good to have friends but if that is the kind of friend that you have, it is better not to have any.  A friend is supposed to uplift you, not to be a burden and a hassle.  And besides, who wants a drunken friend?  So don't feel bad about it.  She should be the one to feel rotten.


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