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Can u stop?

do u think once u cheat u can stop?


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
Yes, if and when you realize that you do more damage to yourself (and your family) than the "good" you get and you truely regret...... then and only then it can happend.
Best regards,


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"Stand by and stand with everything you stand for!"--Blackthelion

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You can stop anything that you start but the question you have to ask yourself is do you really want to? What made you go there in the first place? You see the cause have to be addressed realistically first. You have to feel that what you did was wrong and unfair or as soon as another opportunity occur you'll just do it again. Cheating is a dangerous game and the cost can be life altering. {a} It can be the door to diseases, [b] it can cause violence and even result in lives lost, [c]It can be emotionally damaging for the one who wears the heartbreak. It would be better to just break up with the one you're willing to cheat on and go explore those avenues that have sparked your lust and maybe even your loss. 


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Absolutely you can! Anyone cheating or even contemplating it should ask themselves who they are inside. Who do you want to be? Is a fling and all the disasterous consequences it brings for your family, your reputation and your life all you really want? Is a cheater who you really are? Don't you want to walk tall? To know you have real character, honor and integrity. Please ask God to forgive you (he will if you are sincere), never tell your loved ones (unburdening yourself at their expense is wrong) and live a life that you are proud of. It really is worth the effort and so are you!


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better question is...can you learn to love yourself before you let others love you rather it be emotionally, physically, or mentally. you have to respect and love yourself before others can. I think once you jump past this, you can gain some respect for yourself and demand that in turn. Cheating isnt always about sex anyway, its about feeling that emotinal connection. YOU are the one at fault, no matter how you want to look at it. If you can find out what makes you tick, what you like, how you liked to be touched, heald, fucked, whatever...you need to learn more about YOU before you get involved with someone...if you dont know yourself, why think someone else will know you better?


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Live simply, love generously, care deeply,

speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

Hi,

   You can stop cheating if you really want to.  Think about the people you are hurting.  If you are married and with kids, you are really hurting them.  You are also hurting yourself because your reputation is at stake.  Your conscience will bother you too.  So if you want peace of mind, try to stop what you are doing, cheating will only hurt everyone in your life.

Take care.


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Learn to be a good listner.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.  Amen.


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