What type of men are women looking for?

After studying women, relationships, evolution, and psychology for the last several years, I've come across some startling information.

• I believe that women respond AUTOMATICALLY to certain men, and that most of this response is based on the man's personality, communication, achievements, etc. - not his looks (don't get me wrong. Looks are important. But they're not nearly as important in the long run as personality).
• Women are usually not consciously aware of why they react to these Personality Types.
• These personalities can be divided into two basic groups: The Lover and The Provider.
• Women respond to Lover personalities by having sex with them immediately.
• Women respond to Provider personalities by withholding sex in order to make the man prove that he will stay loyal for the long run.
• There are also several 'unsuccessful' personality types. By unsuccessful, I mean that these types are not attractive to most women. (If you're one of these, don't take it personally. Try something different. I did.

These are the two mental roads - Lover (short term) or Provider (long term). If you get on one road, it's hard to get off. So choose wisely.

For each of the two successful Personality Types, there are four variations. These are created by combining the factors of 'Dominant vs. Submissive' with the basic personalities. This brings the total to eight sub-types that are successful with women... here's a short description of the eight personalities with the appeals that they have to women:

Lover Personalities:

• Bad Boy (danger) Someone who's dangerous and thrilling to be around.
• Adventurer (fun) Someone who's fun and exciting to be around.
• Seducer (sex) Someone who is sensual and sexy and makes her feel sexy.
• Artist (Musician, Poet) (emotion) Someone who moves her emotions and is enigmatic and complex.

• Successful Guy (means) Someone who provides a great lifestyle and stability.
• Daddy (control) Someone who tells her what to do and controls her.
• Regular Guy (loyalty) Someone who is down to earth, loyal and stable.
• Ass Kissing Guy (her boy) Someone who gives her whatever she wants.

Most of the women in this world will respond to ALL of these personalities to one extent or another.

Now, if you read what other authors say about how to be successful with women, they will usually teach you only what works for THEM. I'm guilty of this very thing in my book. I try to give a broader perspective on the topic, because I believe that even though something doesn't work for ME doesn't mean that it doesn't work!

women are looking for men who can make them feel good about themselves (emotionally and physically), men who can boost their egos, men who take care and pride in their looks and are not afraid to speak up when something isn't right.

 to put a different spin on things, instead of getting down that these women think you are not right for them, just remind yourself that if they don't think you're right, it means they're not right for you. does that make sense?

David DeAngelo hit the nail on the head with his answer.

I deftinitely want a man who is emotional, passionate, enigmatic and brooding.

I also want someone who isn't boring, full of himself or a whiner who is responsible, level-headed, loyal, down-to-earth and compassionate. 

That's an easy one:

Over six feet tall, under 45 years old, great hair, 170 pounds, $150,000+  yearly salary, vacation home, yacht, likes candle light dinners on the beach at midnight, loves cats, sends flowers three times a week, writes poetry, cries at weddings, cries when he watches 'Bridges of Madison County', listens to Kenny G (then cries), hates sports, loves gardening --- in short, a woman.

I actually think you should be asking yourself what type of woman are you looking for?   But to answer your question

I want a real Man, and my definition of a man is as follows.

A man who is a provider. He can provide for the needs of a family. Someoone strong to the world but soft and gentle at home. He steps up and takes responsibilty for the things that need to be done without having to be persuaded or begged. He knows how to show love in more ways than just words. He is never violent or abusive, physically or mentally and is willing to be the bigger man and turn the other cheek. He is the head of the household but knows it wouldn't be a home without a wife that is his strenght and support.