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Should I trust him?

My boyfriend and I have been living together for several months, he is allways getting text messages from other women, he tells me that they are just friends am I being crazy to trust him?


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Always respect the person you love!!!

first ? does you boyfriend let you read what his"FRIENDS" are texts to him. an do you know this friends of his. and if you don't way not if they are just friends like he says then he should not have a problem with you meeting them. do they now about you. if not ask him way not. if he acts weird about you asking to meet his texts friend. then there may be some thing going on with one of them.  


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No! I've found that it's always a very bad sign. Don't believe him!


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A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. 

I think if you know the girls and they know you, you may not have anything to worry about. If you feel like your boyfriend is being shady, as some of us guys can be, you may need to be concerned. But if he's given you no reason to distrust him, give him the benefit of the doubt and talk to him about how you're feeling.


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Fool me once,

shame on you!!

Fool me twice,shame on me!

hmm,does your boyfriend let you read the text messages from his*friend*?if so and they are harmless then you can trust him,cause men and women can have friends of the opposite sex


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regret is full of missed opportunities.......

who knows! i have many female friends and it is purely friendship, i must admit i tend not to always make a point of telling my girlfriend of the contact of these friends as it is completely natural to be jealous, but this does not mean i am unfaithful, i am a friendly person and would never dream of being unfaithful to my gorgeous girlfriend but i also do not see why i should not have contact with female friends. my point is just because he has txts from girls does not means he is being unfaithful, if he doesn't tell you in may be because of the reaction you are having which is completely natural. but on the other hand it could be untrue.... does he invite you to meet these friends? does he (if relivant) tell you on acaision what the txts say? i mean he won't do this all the time?

it boils down to trust, and if you don't feel you trust him that answers your question.....


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