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I can't seem to trust my boyfriend!!!! Help

I have be with my boyfriend a little over two years.  I love him so much and care about him alot.  However, there has been many things that he has done in the beginning of our relationship that I didn't like and has made me not trust him.  He would lie to me and I have found several flirty texts in the beginning.  That all stopped after I confronted him and told him that I didn't like that.  However its been two years together and sometimes I still don't trust him because he is shady sometimes.  For example my latest issue is that he told me for example monday when he called me that he was filling up his gas tank and that he was going home.  Great I was happy, and we had a great weekend.  Fine Tuesday comes around and he calls me after work and he said he was getting coldcuts in the supermarket and then going to home.  Ok great again.  I always text him good night so I texted him and he responded in a timely fashion.  However, he dad called me and asked if I was with him and I said no he is not im sleeping.  ok So I called my boyfriend and he picked up and I said your dad called me asking where you were and he thought you were with me.  His excuse is that he was getting gas again and getting something to eat.  I then asked didn't you get gas yesterday and he said yeah I did but I didn't get enough to fill up my tank.  I found this kind of weird first because my boyfriend is a very routined guy.  He does everything he needs to do so he doesn't have to go out again.  I don't know what to do because I feel he is lying to me and im scare to ask him because then he blows up on my because he says I never trust him.  I ask him a question and he gets mad.  I feel like he shouldn't get mad and if he loved me he would try to explain to me.  please give me advice!  Should I ask him?


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Run, run run very fast.  You don't mention your age but any age believe me if thereis so trust you will be miserable.  Take it from me my husband of 12 years just informed me he has had a girlfireied and she will have a baby for him.  We are young 50 year olds.  Go find someone else who will trulky love and treasure you don't settle for anything else.  don't get married casue it will only be very painful, sad and costly!!  good luck

Posted 2009-08-06T01:51:52Z
 
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Plain and simple... NO TRUST = MISERABLE RELATIONSHIP...u really cant have a true relationship with someone if trust is not in the mix. If you feel that u cant trust him and that he is lying to you go with ur gut girl!!! That womans intuition of ours is very rarely wrong in cases like this. If he is a routined guy as u say and things are not making sense and adding up chances are hes upo to something or doing something. Im not saying he is but if a guy loves and cares for u he will be honest with u and not keep things from u, and he wont blow up at u and get mad at u for asking him something and wanting to know something that makes u feel uncomfortable. He would put u first and make sure that u are at ease and not feel insecure about what hes doing or what hes up to. I think that he is acting weird and something is up....trust your gut hun!!! I hope that things work out for u no matter what u choose to do, but like the person before said, find someone that u can trust and that treats u right and doesnt make u feel bad about asking questions and wondering what hes up to!!! U deserve better girl!!!

Posted 2009-08-24T20:30:30Z

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