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How do I know when it's true love?


I thought that I was in love in the past, and was mistaken. I don’t understand how I could have been so wrong at the time. How do I know when it’s true love?


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Sexual attraction and lust is a powerful thing and can make you feel very rapidly that you are in love. However, it can end just as fast.

Real or true love is when you care about the other person's feelings more than you do your own and vice versa. It is a peaceful, comfortable feeling. Your true love will probably be your best friend as well as your lover. True love is not expecting another to be perfect or to change for you. True love is what helps you enjoy the quiet precious moments in life.

Don't limit those you date to a specific idea of how a person should look. That is why so many people never find anyone real.

My best to you. When you really love someone you will know.

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 Be Thankful

 Speak softly

 Let your love shine...

You will know when the thought of asking the question never enters your mind. 

 
 
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There is no rational answer to this question, for love is one of the most difficult feelings to be felt...you just know, I guess..

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Jeremiah 23:19
Behold, a whirlwind of the LORD is gone forth in fury, even a grievous whirlwind: it shall fall grievously upon the head of the wicked

We sometimes think we are in love because we see certain things in someone.  However we tend to perceive the person the way we want to see them not who they really are.

When you truly find the person God made for you.  They cannot walk away, nor can you.  You will meet your hurdles together as we instead of me and you.  Each hurdle will bind you together even stronger.

You see the imperfections in that person, but love them regardless, because the perfections in them are greater.

Hope this helps..........Di

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Three heads is better than one.

it's when they could saw off your arm and you'd forgive them in an instant.

it's when they walk away and you watch as long as you can see them to make sure they are okay.

it's when they chase you around the house with a dead spider and they kiss you and everything is okay.

it's when you look at them and imagine waking up next to them and no one else.

it's when you want to give them everything, but know they would never ask or more than you can give.

it's when you say " i love  you" and you can sit back and think "yes, i do. and becuase of that, because of them, the world will always be ok."

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True love unexplainable its mostly when 2 people fall have a unforgettable felling about each other and when u stare into each others eyes its a magical spark you have. so love its up 2 u whatlove it  

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"Stand by and stand with everything you stand for!"--Blackthelion

 

You know when it's true love when it's not just about you but you're glad to make it about them. You know when it's the real thing when that feeling is mutually shared! When you're each others all in all!Laughing

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