Yo Lookin;  Been married for 45 years..Raised 4 kids....We are still on our honeymoon....Why?? Before we ever married we both hated arguments..We have debates and mild arguments...Many times it is so trivial, we let the other have their way...It does not hurt to let the spouse,friend,etc have their way..We decuss, and end it with a "Ah your goofy", no way...Before we married, we looked for each others faults....The secret was that we both are not selfish...We always want to please the other in every aspect of our lives..Money is a bad item to argue over, and can lead to serious problems in the future....Again ,we don't argue over money.....Somehow,  it worked itself out..Know the person you are going with, before you fall in love...My wife and I are very lucky...Most important, the person must absolutley be your best friend..You must feel that this friend is the one person you want to share and enjoy all experiences with, above all others....The friend must feel exactly the same way.....When you both feel this, your probably in love..No selfishness....No money arguments...When one is feeling down, then go to bed, and wake up happier..Chalk this love up as an experience of life and carry on.......Best of Luck.....Best Regards........MarqUSMC