Having trouble Trusting my Boyfriend

Hi,

   Honestly he could just be a good friend, not a husband material.  He does not respect you and your relationship.  Your relationship is a one-sided one.  A good relationship is one with mutual respect, caring, consideration and thoughtfulness.  Your boyfriend has not shown you the things I mentioned above.  So my advice to you is let him go his way, let him text all he wants and you need to move on and forget him,  he is not the man for you.  I know in your heart that what I said is true, you just refuse to accept the truth that he does not love you.  Truth hurts and I'm sorry for telling you the painful truth.  You seem to be a loving woman and you deserve a lot better.  You take care and please do the right thing for yourself.

You don't have a trust problem, you have a boyfriend problem. A trust problem is when someone have trouble trusting someone even though the other person is being trust worthy. Your boyfriend has given you every reason in the world to not trust him, the fact that you are still trying is pretty amazing.

 It seem to me like your boyfriend is trying to have the cake and eat it to. He wants to be with you and have the stability of a relationship, or he wouldn't bother promising to keep faithful and so on, but he also want to flirt and probably have sex with other women.

What can you do? Well, you can get out of the relationship and then you don't have to deal with the trust issue  anymore and move on to a relationship with someone more trustworthy. Or you can learn to live with your boyfriend the way that he is and accept the fact that you are probably not the only women in his life.

You to are both still very young, and though some people do find their life partner at 20 (or earlier) it seem to me like he's ready ot be single now, and maybe so do you.