To say nothing, especially when speaking, is half the art of diplomacy.
The following are 4 web sites that deal with schools in Qatar:
http://www.eslbase.com/schools/qatar
http://www.indexuae.com/qatar/qatarcat.php?keytext=Schools
http://www.qatarsites.com/dir/qatar-schools
http://www.qatarvisitor.com/index.php?cID=414&pID=1027
As far as the second part of your question, here are a few web sites I found that can help you. There are others you can find by searching Google.
http://www.qatarliving.com/node/261600?page=1
http://www.justlanded.com/english/Qatar/Tools/Qatar-Guide/Jobs/Working-women
http://www.expatfinder.com/v220-expat-women-doha.html