I am right there with all of you , and believe me, I am only beginning with this. She is a disgrace of a Parent,. Many times as Pre-K Teacher I saw children deal with self esteem issues. Much less having children myself going from ages 27 down to 14. and Children go through enough negativity in the world with it's stereotyping or categorizing, that the "safe Zone" should be at Home in the least. Not, in AshLynns case. Shame shame on you Jamie Sterling. Your Husband, hopefully will now set back and view this episode and hopefully the light bulb will go on. Also, I feel that you have now sabotaged any chance of Ever competing in Pageants again, well winning at least. I can not see anyone condoning your behavior! I am only beginning my crusade for these girls. Nothing less than a public apology and counseling would be satisfactory.