Hi,
Having sex for the first time is kind of an scary, exciting and awkward time. You need to make love, not just have sex. That way, it becomes more meanigful. To make love means that you know this girl very well and you love each other very much. if you love a person, you always think of ways to enhance her life, make it better and think of actions that will not cause any pain and regrets later.
Before you perform the sex act be sure to bear in mind:
1. Whether you are responsible for anything that will happen like pregnancy.
2. Whether you are ready to support a baby financially, physically just in case she gets pregnant.
3. Whether you are ready to be a parent.
4. That when she gets pregnant, you will be MAN enough to let the baby be born and not being aborted.
5. That you are financially stable,emotionally mature to support a family.
If you answered YES to all thes questions, by all means, enjoy sex!!
After all, God gave us sex to procreate( Only at the Proper time. )
Take care.