First time "sexy time" as borat says lol

I am a 20 year old male. wanting to have sex for the first time. anything i should know before hand?f


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Never be afraid to try, remember...


Amateurs built the ark
Professionals built the Titanic

It will mean much more to you if you have sex with someone who actually means something to you, with a girlfriend, not just anyone.  You will learn how it goes along the way... it won't last long the first time, and you'll have to work on your stamina.  Don't expect your girlfriend to have an orgasm from sex either... for a long time.  You will have to pleasure her in other ways in order for both of you to be happy.  I hope this helps for a start.  Have fun and enjoy... be safe, and don't forget protection.


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All I can say is, make sure you have condoms and lube. And try not to be too drunk, that will help you distinguish a  lot of things. Like having sex with the wrong person lol. Also, if you masterbate an hour or two before having intercourse you'll last longer since you released earlier. Enjoy be safe =D


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Hi,

     Having sex for the first time is kind of an scary, exciting and awkward time.  You need to make love, not just have sex.  That way, it becomes more meanigful.  To make love means that you know this girl very well and you love each other very much.  if you love a person, you always think of ways to enhance her life, make it better and think of actions that will not cause any pain and regrets later.

     Before you perform the sex act be sure to bear in mind:

1.  Whether you are responsible for anything that will happen like pregnancy.

2.  Whether you are ready to support a baby financially, physically just in case she gets pregnant.

3.  Whether you are ready to be a parent.

 4.  That when she gets pregnant, you will be MAN enough to let the baby be born and not being aborted.

5.  That you are financially stable,emotionally mature to support a family.

    If you answered YES to all thes questions, by all means, enjoy sex!!

After all, God gave us sex to procreate(  Only at the Proper time. )

Take care.

 


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