A:As bad as I feel about answering your question...since I really feel like you aren't open to seeing things as they really are....to answer your question ("what can I do ..I want him") - the simple truth is that people (especially men) ALWAYS want what they THINK they can't have. Be friendly but busy much of the time when he wants to go out. If you really want to play games to get this guy (and I wish you didn't), don't be available all the time whether it's on the phone or in person and especially for sex.....and remember the rule: always wanting what they think they can't have. I hope that by limiting you availability for him, it will give you time to think this thru and realize that this doesn't sound like the right person for you - and at the very least...not the right person at this time. PLEASE be using protection too! The WORST thing is to make a guy feel obligated to you because you get pregnant. Want more than this for YOURSELF!!!!