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I think I'm being used by a guy i love....

I have a serious crush on this one guy. Well i love him in fact, and he says he loves me back. We dated for 4 months, and were absolutely head over heels. As well just as a side note im a sexual person and so is he, so we thrived both physically and mentally. One problem which might influence him is that I'm quite a bit younger, than him 5 years to be exate. As well he broke up with his girlfriend 4 months ago, and they dated for 2 years. He says he still has feelings for her. That was 2 months ago, so it's been 6 months since they have broken up now. During that period in which she wasn't seeing him she gained a little weight ( which is understandable) but she was quite heavy to start out with. He says he isn't attracted to her physically as much as before. He says someday we will be together, and i pray to God that we will be because i love him so much. He says give it time, until February for him to sort out his life, and figure out what he wants. So recently we have just been hooking up, and it's enjoyable! but im afraid he is using me for sex, so when i talked to him about it he says, he'd never do that and that he talks to me all the time, and sex isn't his number one priority. He says his insulted that i would think such things. But his ex refuses to have sex with him. I love him ,and i want him. What should i do?


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This is an assymetric and unbalanced relationship with you the giver and he the taker. You are still very young with a possible good future ahead for you but you must act now. If he is not ready to make a commitment to you then you must end this relationship and look for someone who will reciprocate your love. Your present relationship is not stable. If he is unwilling, cut it and look for someone who is more honest, who is not a taker but a giver. By wishing and hoping you are only delaying the agony. Close the door and look for someone with integrity and who will appreciate your love.

 
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"The Best Is Yet To Come"

For the most part I totally agree with "Rock."   I may be a bit older than you seem to be but I readily remember what it feels like to be in your shoes.  I wish I could get inside your head and give you the benefit of my experience but we all have to learn our own lessons.  PLEASE remember that a true relationship isn't 60/40 or even 50/50.  It's 110/110.  If each person puts the others needs ahead of their own, everyones needs are met!  It's obvious that this guy IS using you for sex, no matter what he says.  Do you really expect him to say "yes" when you ask him about it?  My wish for you is that you concentrate on your own life and learn all about yourself and learn to love yourself and that will attract the right kind of man for you.  Don't worry or rush...it's so much better to wait for the right person.  I have learned that if a person doesn't want to be with me, why on earth would I want to be with them?!  That is a sure fire clue that this isn't the right person!  Let this guy go and be glad you have the opportunity to wait for "Mr. Right for You."  Good luck!

 

 
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"The Best Is Yet To Come"

As bad as I feel about answering your question...since I really feel like you aren't open to seeing things as they really are....to answer your question ("what can I do ..I want him") - the simple truth is that people (especially men) ALWAYS want what they THINK they can't have.  Be friendly but busy much of the time when he wants to go out.  If you really want to play games to get this guy (and I wish you didn't), don't be available all the time whether it's on the phone or in person and especially for sex.....and remember the rule:  always wanting what they think they can't have.  I hope that by limiting you availability for him, it will give you time to think this thru and realize that this doesn't sound like the right person for you - and at the very least...not the right person at this time.  PLEASE be using protection too!  The WORST thing is to make a guy feel obligated to you because you get pregnant.  Want more than this for YOURSELF!!!!

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