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What would you think if your ex has been like this since dumping you 18 months ago?

we split up nearly 18 months ago after being together for over 2 years.

 

we split as he dumped me and he wanted space didn't know what he wanted his head wasn't clear - he lost about 3 stone in weight and every time I saw him he broke down in tears. we didn't keep in touch just saw him randomly in the high street

 

9 months ago (8 months after we split) I saw him in the pub and he told me I bumped into him and He told me he still thinks of me everyday, still has everything I have given him, has photos on his camera that he hasn't got developed yet, any car the same as mine he looks for me, any small blonde he thinks its me, any song, still thinks of me when what would of been our wedding song is played, he still thinks of me calling Charlie when he sees on the same (charlie is a dog ) he still has all my phone numbers, asked me if I still nicked all the bed covers and said I was like sleeping beauty - he kept saying its all good all good afterwards. And at the time I thought it was for the best.and its normal to b like this.

 

I saw him In December 2 months on from him saying all this and he got all emotional with me, hugged me tight and kissed me on the cheek

 

February he spoke to my male friend , told him I just had a operation he shook his head and his eyes watered. My ex told him this is the hardest thing he has ever done and that I am an amazing girl.

 

Saw him getting into his car in March and he stood and watched me driving up the road and waved as I passed he then was watching me as I drove past ( I would of stopped but had cars behind me)

 

Just recently( beg july) I have seen him drive pass my road after work (never comes down the road) even thou he doesn't need to come this way , the novelty boxing gloves I bought him when we was together is in the new car, as well as a tax disc holder I bought him. he drove past me whilst I was parked up I hooted my horn he stuck his hand out the window gave me a big wave and hooted his horn. the following day I saw him driving behind me in the distance no cars between us I stuck my hand out the window and he sped up to catch me up he hooted then I hooted he hooted again I went down my road and he continued his journey I text him to say like the new motor ;-) and within minutes I got a reply -(which I was surprised at) all it said was yeah cool thanks its ok. still a old one though. hope ur well.

 

if this was ur ex what would you think of it


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I think he is obsessive and stocking you. I would call the cops.

Posted 2009-08-10T12:03:18Z
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Hi,

   If I were you, I would have a heart to heart talk with him and ask him what is going on in his life.

   If I were in your shoes, I would not even think of reconciling with him. He does not seem to know what he really wants in life.  You need to move on and find someone who will care and love you.

Take care.

 

he sounds scared and confused his  mind is not made up maybe you 2 should just stop all the running around and get into a serious talk see where its going if not there is more fish in the  ocean and where there is water there is fish its not you its him and glad you made it  through your surgery good luck to both of you

                                    standsalonewolf...

Posted 2009-08-10T16:02:24Z
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Jay
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Glass sculpture, Chihuly at Grant's Farm; http://www.chihuly.com

Victims of circumstance owe it to fate. Victims of choice owe it to themselves.

He reminds me of someone who finishes second in a race.

Pattern your life accordingly.

Jay

P.S. "Stocking you." What is this? Sheep hosiery? If he were skulking about in the grocery where you shop, I suppose that this place would be a stalk market. Bully!

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