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I think my boyfriend is cheating over the internet..

My boyfriend gets instant messages on his computer from girls that say "hey baby" He knows I see them but he wont say anything to them he just closes the window and laughs. He claims that they ae just friends but I have friends and I dont talk to them that way and they dont talk to me that way. How can i get him to stop talking to these girls?


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So I know this may see a little weird or creepy but I'll let you know what I did with my ex boyfriend. I always seen girls posting messages that he knew I would see and on sevral ocassions i seen his post things on girls' pictures like " im coming over" because the picture must have looked good or something.. haha. But anywas I made up an e-mai address and started talking to him. He is a flirtatious guy so that's what he did. And he like your boyfrined talked to girls ike "baby" "hun" but what ou have to do first is let him know you only like him calling you those names not anyone else. Good luck. and You shouldn't go that extreame as the fake e-mail at first = D


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MY inferiority complex isn't as good as YOURS

If he feels the need to hide these conversations without explaining to you who these women are,he clearly has a problem and I don't think you should trust him.Ask him how he would feel if you were flirtatious and had suggestive conversations with other guys.Gauge his response,then decide how you feel about continuing the relationship.He is human and it probably makes him feel good to talk to girls who like him based solely on a picture.Guys are just as vain and shallow as girls can be sometimes.;-)


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Sit him down and ask him to be honest with you. Let him know how this is making you feel. Honesty is the best key in a relationship, and if he still will not let you know why these women are messaging him like this then you need to make a decision that is best for you hun.


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