Ultimately, the use of nuclear weapons destabilizes the whole planet. We would probably all be drawn into its horrific aftermath.
The ONLY value to nuclear weapons is deterrence. Parity of nukes among adversarial nations is probably the greatest deterrent to war.
I find it hypocritical and abusive of power for the US and/or the NATO countries to proscribe various Asian nations from acquiring or developing nuclear weapons. Iran is going to be a major power in the Middle East - whether we find it disconcerting or not.