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Sammie, everyone has already done their best to reassure you. You have had testimonials from people who have had the procedure. You have had numerous suggestions on what you can try to reduce your stress and fear.

Among all of the many responses you have received, surely there is at least one which has some good information.

If you would rather obsess and fuss about it, then just admit it. If you want suggestions or solutions to your problem, go back and read what's already been posted.

If you still can't handle it, please seek psychological help.

Meanwhile, here's a little ditty which I think fits the situation. It's sung to the tune of Singin' in the Rain:

"I live to complain, I love to complain,

In sun or in rain, I just like to complain.

I gripe and I groan, I whine and I moan,

I live, I love to complain." 

thumbs up jkgrandma....i will probaly be singing that song in my head all day.  that was very funny   lol  good answer.

I KNOW AS OTHERS....  JK.  WE HAVE ALL TRIED TO BE NICE.

i have spent alot of time looking FOR answer's for sammie,  as i know everyone has,  like you said.  she is the only one that can make her decision and if it's been 10 years,  she should do it or seek help.  sorry sammie.  we ALL HAVE TRIED TO HELP YOU, WITH ALOT OF RESEARCH ON OUR PART. NOW ITS TIME FOR YOU TO DO SOMETHING  OR SING IN THE RAIN.

YOU HAVE GOTTEN MORE ANSWERE'S ON THIS QUESTION...AND I AM STILL TRYING TO FIND ANSWERS ON ONE QUESTIONS OF DIFFERENT THINGS MEAN  ON YEDDA.  WHEN YOU ARE READING POSTED QUESTIONS AND ANSWER'S AND YOU CLICK ON THAT ONE TO SEE WHAT HAS BEEN SAID,  " HOW DO YOU GET BACK TO WHERE YOU LEFT OFF WHEN YOU CLICK,  SO YOU DONT HAVE TO GO BACK ,   GO THRU NUMBERS AGAIN DOWN AT THE BOTTOM ( BLOCKS).  I KNOW THERE HAS TO BE A EASIER WAY TO DO IT,  THEN HOW I AM DOING IT.  I HAVE SLOW SPEED ON MY COMPUTER ANYWAY.....SO ITS A PAIN.

GOD BLESS

NANADEE