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How do you tell your husband you think his brother may be gay?

How do you tell your husband you think his brother may be gay?


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Hi,

    You don't need to tell your husband anything, he probably knows it.


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Hi,


From your question one can learn that you can't (for some reason[s]) simply tell him what you suspect.  In order to give you a good advice one has to know what is that specific reason(s).  
1.  Are you afraid from his reaction.
2.  You think he might be hurt / offended.
3.  You don't want to be the fool if at the end you'll
     find out it's not true.
4.  Are you afraid to be the "bad news messanger".
5.  Do you suspect that he knows it and prefers
     to hide it ?
6.  Bad relations with your brother in law, and hence
     your husband thinks you are not objective ?
7.  Bad (or not open / candid) relations with your
     husband (that avoid you simply saying what
     you feel / think).
Sure there can be more reasons.  Each reason will lead to a different answer / solution.  Possible solutions: Hinting, asking someone else to say it, sending an anonymous note, ignoring it (yes, it's a solution !), etc. 
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You don't.  It isn't really for you to tell, is it?


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I wouldn't...

With all due respect, that is really between the brothers. Accept them and offer support, but leave the actual telling to the people it really concerns. 


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It's not your business!, would you want your husband tell you that he thinks your sister may be lesbian? Brothers will always be brothers, no matter what...



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