I've known this great girl for 2 yrs. We've become good friends as we've confided in each other about much personal information. We are opposite in many ways: I'm more passive, she's very outgoing. She's loud, I'm quiet. She likes confrontation, I don't. She's a city girl, I'm a small town guy. She's 27, hot and single, I'm 37, good looking, divorced w/no kids. We do have things in common: We both are athletic, we are both confident, she's more open about it than me. We enjoy talking with each other,and enjoy each other's company. She sometimes can be over the top cuz she likes to be in control and she knows she turns heads so she can be a little over confident at times. Anyway, I've been divorced for almost a year, and I don't know how long I've had feelings for her. But I've been very cautious cuz I don't want to be in the "rebound" mode too soon. I've taken the time to move past my divorce and I'm ready to start dating. My question: I've gone back and forth on should I tell her that I have feelings for her with the risk that things will get "weird" and that our friendship will not be the same? She's admitted a sexual tension between us a long time ago and I didn't know how to read that. Sometimes I think it's the right time, and then there's times when I think I'm only setting myself up for a huge let down. I'm not afraid of her saying the feelings are not mutual. I just need to know if I should share this with her or not? Help!