The Gay Dear Abby
As someone who has "been there, done that" I would say that he was testing you to see what your reaction would be. More than likely, he would have wanted you to say "If you are gay, I wish you would tell me. It would change nothing between us, and you would still be the same person I have always known." Think about it!
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