Not sure If my answer will help. But here it goes anyway. Myself being a guy, I don't like tattooes on a ladies arms, shoulders, or chest region. However, I think a tattoo on the lower back region, and/or the ankle is quite sexy. However, if you are a guy that had posted the question, then ignore the answer, an just pick any ol place. For the tattoo itself, it's always better to just go with something that truly represents who you are, or what you like. Always sleep on it. Sleep on it a few times. Have it drawn on paper, and place it where you want it and try to imagine how you would like it. Hope this helps!