Hi Mrankens,
I totally agree with OronD's opinion, brilliant as always. I gave him 2 thumbs up. I read the Yedda questions and I most of the time try to be honest with my response and my motive is not to hurt or disappoint the questioner but to be able to help solve the problem. It's human nature to always expect favorable answers even if they know in their minds that the particular answer will not actually help the situation. In other words, people like to hear sugar-coated answers.
Like OronD said it is not easy to be honest really because one is viewed as tactless or insensitive.
I have asked numerous personal questions here at Yedda and I really appreciated all the honest answers that I got from the answerers. I realized that I made mistakes and personally it does not feel good for someone else to point out my wrong-doings or wrong beliefs. But nonetheless, I did not get upset about those responses. I even gave them 2 thumbs up for trying to show me my mistakes and taking the time to help me.