It doesn't matter whether you what you are or what you do, if you were baptized as a child, you are Christian. That's just the way it is. You Bria might not like the type of Christian this person is, but they are Christian. Also, why do you care? This is their choice.... not yours. When the Christians went out and killed thousands of people during the Crusades, or when the Catholic Church didn't stand up for the genocide happening during the holocaust, did those decisions make then not Christian? When a Christian person is sent to jail for murder, are they no longer Christian. This isn't the way faith/religion/peoplehood works. People make the choice as to what religion they want to follow... people also make decisions as to whether they want to be good people or not. People decide whether they want to act on their desire to be gay, whether they were born gay or not. The point is, is that people make good and bad decisions and that means that a person determines whether they are a good person, bad person, gay person, straight person, etc. You or anyone else have no right to tell them that they are not Christian, that they're not Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, whatever. They are what they are. You just don't agree with the way they lead their lives... it's a good thing it's their life and not yours.