The problem isn't pregnancy: it is postpartum to thirty years of age. That is how long the kid will be a problem.
I can think of when my grandson, Jeffrey, was kidnapped. I hate to say it, but the kid wore double-knits, had a pocket protector, tape on the glasses, and a laugh as pleasant as the bray of a mule.
Then the kidnapper made his demand: he wanted $25,000.00 -- or else he'd bring the kid back!
I had to re-finance the house . . ..