Should i stop speaking to him and give up on this love game hes playing?

Sounds like he's only thinking of himself.  Without care for what you think is best for you.  You don't need to be at his side all the time to be considered bf/gf. As badly as it may hurt, I think you should continue on the path you've chosen.  Sounds like you're trying to better your life, and he doesn't like it.  He sounds too obsessive AND possesive.  Do what you need to do to better yourself. Don't let anyone hold you back.  He should be supporting you - not giving you ultimatums.  Trust me, I know it has to be breaking your heart.

Hi. I agree with fluff in that he is really thinking about what is best for him. At the same time, I am a bit confused. Weren't you the one who wanted to take a break at the beginning? It seems that you upset him because he assume that the space you wanted to take was more than just space and as to be expected he got emotional and overreacted. Of course he loves you and wants to be with you. It is hard for a person to allow themselves to be vulnerable, especially when it means they have to fight for you. I think that you need to decide if you really care for him and want a future with him. If you do, then make an effort. It takes two for a healthy relationship to work. If you need space to figure things out then tell him that you need space but don't want to break up. Maybe dating like you did at the beginning and seeing each other less often is your best option. I don't think that when he threatened to go to Mexico and change his phone number that he was thinking rationally, especially considering that he called you again a few days later. Think about how you feel about him and then go from there! It is ok to be a bit selfish sometime when it comes to these things and decide what is best for you. Good luck!

I think the only reason he is acting this way is because he loves you. Think about it, the reason he was saying those things about changing his number and moving to mexico was because he was frustrated and thinking it was his fault that you broke up with him(might be the case idk) and is self destructing because he was idioticly trying to get you to have some sort of feeling to tell him not to do that and for you to say sorry or i love you. HE WANTS YOU TO TELL HIM NOT TO GO SO HE KNOWS HE'S IMPORTANT TO YOU AND THAT YOU WONT JUST LET HIM LEAVE..Obviously you didnt try to stop him.. Also notice how he called you back. Of course he loves you otherwise he wouldnt even bother trying. He stupididly asked you to go with him to mexico, come on give him a break hes getting desperate. I dont think hes going to use you I think that he is trying to do whatever he stupididly can do to get you back. His minds not clear because of this whole breakup thing thats the reason why hes acting immature..All guys are like that its not our faults..but at least we try. Anyways..Good luck however it turns out for you.