Hi, If this is a long Term or Short Term Relationship and you feel comfortable when your together you could offer to help her with the things that are keeping her busy. If this is a fairly new relationship you could still offer to help out and this should give the two of you more Quility time together and bring the two of you closer. If she just outright refuses your help then this mite be a good time to hint around about wanting to spend more time together and if there's something bothering her offer her what ever she needs and you'll try to do what will make her happy. Listening to Her when she comes home from work or when she may seem down is always a good way of opening her up. I know that Women Love to have all your attention to listen to whats going on, even if you don't have the time you need to make the time. Even my Daughter needs to have me listen to her when she would comes home or calls. Everybody needs that extra personal attention and afterwards there is relief like getting things off your chest, you feel better and if you really care you can try to add in some suggestions that would make life easier. I hope this will help you out and remember that its a Give and Take Both Ways and there are times that each of you need that time to do the things that the two of you don't do together and you still have alot of things you both enjoy doing together. Well you have the idea and I Hope Things will be Great for the two of you.