I have been dating this girl for a while now. It started out great, but she's been acting distant lately. She says that she's been busy. What should I do?
Love is the battery of life....
Hi,Simple: Check it.... if she is really busy than it's temporary and one day you'll see a big improvement..... but id you don't see an improvement than better discuss that matter with her in depth. I don't want to hurt you but if I were in love with somebody even if I was extremely busy I would still have time & attention & love for her..... Is that message clear ? Best regards,
A healthy relationship starts with trust and honesty and a big warm genuine smile.
Be honest with her and ask her directly. She will appreciate that you are being honest with her. And as a result, you will most likely get a clear answer. Good luck!
MY inferiority complex isn't as good as YOURS
Try being evasive.If she comes around when the tables are turned and YOU don't have time for HER,she's a manipulative game-player and I'd advise you don't waste anymore time with her.On the off-chance she really is just too busy to be with you,maybe the timing is off for your entire relationship and you should move on.I hate to be bitchy about it but it sounds like a one-sided relationship.Women have come a long way since the 50's...if you court us,we court right back!
Fool me once,
shame on you!!
Fool me twice,shame on me!
give her the space she needs,she may really be very busy,but no matter how busy she is,she shouldn't be distant!after you have given her the space that she needs,call her up if she is still acting that way,then you must talk to her and find out what the real reason is!
The search for people who can answer your question continues for as long as needed - until you find the answer you were looking for.
When an answer is posted by someone who was invited (byYedda or by yourself) to answer your question, their answer is marked with a yellow "invited by Yedda".
To be invited to answer other people's questions in your areas of knowledge and interest, be sure to list your favorite topics:
» My Settings › My Topics.
Of course, the more helpful your answers are, the more likely you are to be invited to future questions...
Sounds to me that she has cooled off but can't tell you directly. Call her and try to get her to speak honestly maybe that will enable her to be more forthcoming and you can then end this relationship on a friendly basis and go on to better things.
she could just have genuinly been buisy or maybe she feels things are moving a bit too fast. Id let it cool a little and see if she contacts you. if she doesnt at all in 3/4 days call her and ask her whats going on. you have a right to know.
good luck
I think you should give her some breathing space, maybe she has something going on in her life that is very personal, I sure she will come around, I would wait a couple of days and ask her if theres anything you can do for her,and she what she has to say, then you can take it from there. good luck, Im sure everything will work out,it will just take some time.
give her space and find a hobby. treat her like she treats you. get busy yourself.....and don't get your hopes up. if it's meant to be it will be.
Got an answer for nickr? Would you like to comment on the posted answers, or vote for the one which you think is the best?
Sign up for a free account, or sign in (if you're already a member).
Other people asked questions on similar topics, check out the answers they received:
Other people asked questions on various topics, and are still waiting for answer. Would be great if you can take a sec and answer them
