• Answers
  • Web
Originated from
AOL Coaches
Asked about “Love & Sex on AOL Coaches

Too soon for a romantic getaway?

I have been with my girlfriend for about a month now. I found a weekend getaway for Valentine's Day, but don't want to scare her. Is it too soon for a trip?


Share Send to a friend Watch Report
 
 

12 Posted Answers
Order by

 
881 helpful answers

The journey to an improved lifestyle begins with the first step.

Confident Lifestyle 

Confident Lifestyle Blog 

Tiptop Server 

 

It depends on how emotionally attached she is to you at this time. Ask her how she would feel about going on a little get away. Explain where it is and what your plans are. If she thinks it is to soon, she will let you know.

If she accepts, have a great time. 

Good luck and best wishes. 

Posted 2008-02-12T15:26:46Z
Helpful?(5)
Rated as Best Answer
 
70 helpful answers

It depends. If you have not had fairly regular sex by now (or if you've had none at all), then it could be a very poor decision to ask her away for a "romantic weekend", which suggests continuous intimacy and an emphasis on ongoing sexual activities. It obviously would be pushing sex far too quickly and may well result in the early termination of your relationship.

 

If you are pretty sexually active already, then ask her how she feels. One month is fairly quick to be taking a relationship to another level, one she might not be comfortable with at this stage. A weekend away sort of implies that you are thinking of some form of commited relationship, and this may be way too soon for her.

Posted 2008-02-12T21:05:22Z
SKIPTON was invited by Yedda to answer this question.

 
40 helpful answers

I think it may be too soon. You don't really want to put yourself in an intense situation where you won't really have anywhere to go if you need a break from one another. there are other romantic things you can do together celebrating valentines day and I don't think it's really necessary at this point to put your relationship to this sort of test.

Posted 2008-02-13T14:49:34Z
 
4 helpful answers

I would think it's too soon.  But that's just me~maybe you two are really close and have known each other for many years.  If so, then you are probably in the clear.

Posted 2008-02-17T22:09:50Z
 

If you are wondering if it is appropriate than it probably isn't.  If it felt right, you wouldn't be posting here, so you are probably ruching things.

Posted 2008-02-27T21:37:27Z
 
1 helpful answer

I do think it is too soon, and I do think it may scare her off a bit. Even though Valentine's Day happened to roll around only a month after you began dating, it should not be taken as a reason to do such a big romantic gesture. Plus, then you'll set the bar very high for gifts. Start simple, like a bottle of perfume and a nice dinner out. Too much, too soon, no matter the intensity of your relationship, will eventually doom the relationship not to mention potentially put off your girl. Leave a little mystery as to how much you like her, and ease into the relationships. I would wait 3 months before you take her on a romantic weekend getaway. If you'd like to discuss this in greater detail, you can visit my site, The San Diego Dating Coach

Good luck,

DeAnna

Posted 2008-03-03T22:30:23Z
 
1 helpful answer

I would say it all depends on how long you've known her and how close you are. My boyfriend and I went away after only dating for a month, but we had been good friends for 6 months before that so it was very natural too see each other for that length of time. If you feel at all that a romantic getaway may be uncomfortable I would say skip it. It is better to build your relationship slowly than risk an awkward trip. Best of luck!

Posted 2008-03-07T17:33:04Z
 

your a pussy dude grow some balls

Posted 2008-03-07T21:56:45Z
Helpful?(0)
Rated #10 out of 12

Sign in to participate

Got an answer for nickr? Would you like to comment on the posted answers, or vote for the one which you think is the best?

Sign up for a free account, or sign in (if you're already a member).

Explore Related Questions

Other people asked questions on similar topics, check out the answers they received:


Q:

Valentine's Day Getaway

My husband and I want to do something special for Valentine's Day. What are some romantic but low-budget ideas for a weekend ...
Submitted by AnnieSu   2 years ago.
  • viewed 770 times
Last answer posted 2 years ago by SKIPTON


Q:

Valentine's Day Gift Ideas

What are some creative gift ideas to for Valentine's Day? I want to show him that I have feelings for him in a romantic and sweet ...
Submitted by Jassygr   2 years ago.
  • viewed 866 times
Last answer posted 8 days ago by vhongandglad


Q:

Singles' V-Day Party--too desperate?

I am thinking of having a singles' Valentine's Day party. It's an excuse to invite friends, dress up really hot, and see my FWB ...
Submitted by Lookinforthe1   2 years ago.
  • viewed 747 times
Last answer posted 6 months ago by joedevine



» More...

Feed - Subscribe to changes to this Q&A Blog
ADVERTISEMENT
  • Answers
  • Web
Copyright © 2006-2009, Yedda Inc. and respective copyright owners · CC License