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What is too soon...

How do you know if it's love or infatu

ation or even just the longing to being in love and happy. Is there such a thing as falling too soon?


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Good question. Just got over that hump myself. If you find yourself smiling for no reason at all in the middle of doing something or just have a thought of that person out of no where...it's love. If  he / she is what you think of, if just for a second while you're brushing your hair or getting dressed..it's love. you can hear a smile on the other end of the phone ( and you can ) it's love. I for one can believe in love at first sight. been there, done that, still there. Loving every minute of it. No, time is not a question. Your heart can tell if it's love or infatuation. Good luck and follow your heart.


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Love your life as you only get one. 

There is definitely such a thing as falling in love too soon. I'm guilty of it and I'm pretty sure most people at some point in their lives are guilty of it too. It wasn't until after the relationship failed that I began to think I fell in love too quickly. And 2 years later, when I was in another serious relationship, I realized that the first relationship may have really only been infatuation because the new relationship opened my eyes in ways the previous relationship never did.


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you do not say how long the reletionship is....................i can tell you that when you think of this person with every breathe that you take, and you feel like you are in a dream or in a cloud, things don't have texture and you can think of nothing else  it could be either, more than likely infatuation at an early start, but if this continues for a substantial length of it is definitely love.  Don't be in a hurry to analysis your relationship....................just enjoy the moment and give it time to manifest


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"Im going back to the start.."

when it lasts it is love... when it doesnt ... its infatuation :P


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i always try to help those who need good adviceSmile

yes falling in love with someone takes time and patience meaning long term relationship get to know the person before you jump into something your not ready for


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You have to understand the difference between love and lust.  You can be in love and in lust with many people over the course of a lifetime, people within and without relationships, and with people suited and unsuitable.  The main thing to understand is that you don't have to acknowledge them like a lemming.  You can also control to a very tight degree, with practice, what distractions you will pick up on.  True love is unselfish even though at times one sided.  You have to care about the other person more than yourself.  If the person brings out the good in you or makes you want to realize goals and better yourself than you are on the path to true love.  If the person is toxic, carries excessive baggage, and causes you mindless distraction and drama you are in a lethal trap with tremendous ramifications.  People who are healthy will avoid you like the plague if you flirt and cavort with people who you are trifling with or when you are obviously the fool.


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