Im soo worried and confused plz help me

You face a very complicated situation. On the one hand your partner keeps telling you that you are not good enough when it gets to sex, and on the other hand you don't feel comfortable with sex at all.

The question that should be asked is why you feel so uncomfortable with sex. Is it only your partner's remarks that makes you not confident, or is it his personality that prevents you from enjoying your time with him in general? Or, Maybe it's some bad experience with partners from the past that makes you uncomfortable with sex?

Those are some questions that you should ask yourself. By answering them you'll be able to know what is the real problem. I can't tell you what you are doing right and what are you doing wrong with the details you have provided so far.  

I know I'm in a way jumping to a conclusion with limited information, but I would never be with anyone who said that I sucked in bed.  Seriously, it takes two people to have good sex, and if sex is bad between your partner and he's the one complaining about it and blaming it on you, it seems like he's projecting his problems onto you a bit.  If he is such a pro at sex, he should be able to lead you and help you to have great sex.  Clearly he's not such a pro and sex isn't good between the two of you.  I'm sure that by telling you that you are bad at sex, it makes you feel uncomfortable.  Did you have sex before you were with him?  Have you always been uncomfortable with sex?  I think it takes a relationship with the right person for sex to feel right... and maybe you're just not with the right person.  If you want your relationship to last and it's important enough to you, I'd consider seeing someone with him, to talk about these problems... otherwise I don't see a very promising future for this relationship, to be perfectly honest.  Don't let someone degrade you or make you feel like you're not good enough.  That's never acceptable. 

babe,i would never stay with anybody who complained about how i had sex!if he doesn't like it,then it means that he isn't doing it right!if he is so good,then,he should tell you what it is "he thinks"you are doing"wrong"!there are some positions that i am not comfortable doing,so i do not do them!i will not have sby tell me to do sth that i don't like!

so i suggest you tell him that there are things that you do not like about his way of having sex!let's see how he would feel,when sby degrades him!

NEVER let anybody make you feel unsure of yourself!

I think the 1st thing is to learn to feel comfortable with yourself, try experimenting on your own, then work on your partner, Its not always up to him to make you feel good, you have to do some work too......try asking him what he likes and tell him what you like, you will find things will start to change....but dont put up with him telling you your crap at sex.....you go girlfriend!!!!

No reason to jump  to conclusions about ending this relationship.  It is good  to comment about the  couples sex life and to talk to your partner about  it. Though there is a way to say things  . Did  your partner  use the words "crap"  when he made a remark about your  sex practice? If he did you should talk to him about about it and mention the fact that you are the one spending your time with him in bed so he should find a better way to make remarks.  If you are feeling uncomfortable when you get close to having intercourse that probably whats affecting your performance. You should be relaxed relieved from tensions and willing to satisfy your partner . You should talk it over with him that would be the best advice I can give you. If you are uncomfortable it means he is making you feeling this way and that's the problem not you.

Tough neh!, the thing is some men like thier women on top, but it's better you discuss it and tell your partner that you are not comfortable. Now if he does'nt want to work with you on this better you live. 

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You need a new partner. Sex should be mutal and loving. The only way he might be justified in complaining would be if he were buying a hooker. You can do better for yourself.